MEN RESPECT STANDARDS - LADIES GET SOME!

Men are very logical and simple being,if u tell them what u like and what u don't like,they would do anything they can to make sure they live up to your expectations, particularly if they are interested in forging a relationship with u.(note:be cautious of telling him everything u like when u first meet him;will tell u why in the next post)

But seriously, men are not programmed to figure out what you want if u do not tell them! They are quite happy to know up front, so they can decide if they are up for the challenge— not after three weeks into the relationship ,not two months after you guys have had sex,not four years after you two have said "I do"!!rather u should tell him while eating the shawama , meat pie ,barbecue, pizza or whatever he bought u while out on a date this is because u are giving him a road map on how to conduct himself especially "if" his interested in a relationship with u.

Understand that this is not a license for u to start running down your list of "I don't", " I can't". Tell a man wat u require without making it feel Like u are making a list of demands. U can tell him in a midst of conversation and try to shape your standards in soft language, it'll will be easier for him to act on and more importantly for him to understand. Imagine how he will feel if u say it rudely! Rather tell him in a pleasant way.

For example,instead of saying," if u are dating me and sleeping with other bitches am out!" Why not Say something like ,"I'm always faithful and honest with the man am dating and would like to be treated the same way". You have just told him that u require the man in ur life to be honest and faithful as well without shouting or pointing and talking to him rudely. Instead of saying "i can't date a man who doesn't know God" perhaps you can say something like "i Love going to church every sunday because i like to exercise my faith or I don't joke with Sunday service" in so doing, u have made it clear that you're God fearing woman who knows the lord and that u take ur faith seriously. Now, u have given him what u think is valuable information about the woman his interested in! Most importantly you have told him what your standards are though you said it in a matured way.

It is very important as a lady to have principles and standard which guards you, oftentimes many ladies don’t have requirements , they find it difficult to know their self value and worth as a woman some are scared of rejection while some out of desperation think they are too old to have a choice end up making mistakes.

Don’t devalue your self as a lady don’t be scared of making choices! Your choice matters, you matter. Ladies if He really cares about you and wants to be with you he will.