MEN RESPECT STANDARDS -LADIES GET SOME!
Men are very logical and simple being,if u tell them what u like and what u don't like,they would do anything they can to make sure they live up to your expectations, particularly if they are interested in forging a relationship with u.(note:be cautious of telling him everything u like when ufirst meet him;will tell u why in the next post)
But seriously, men are not programmed to figure out what you want if u do not tell them! They are quite happy to know up front, so they can decide if they are up for the challenge— not after three weeks into the relationship ,not two months after you guys have had sex,not four years after you two have said "I do"!!rather u should tell him while eating the shawama , meat pie ,barbecue, pizza or whatever he bought u while out on a date this is because u are giving him a road map on how to conduct himself especially "if" his interested in a relationship with u.
Understand that this is not a license for u to start running down your list of "I don't", " I can't". Tell a man wat u require without making it feel Like u are making a list of demands. U can tell him in a midst of conversation and try to shape your standards in soft language, it'll will be easier for him to act on and more importantly for him to understand. Imagine how he will feel if u say it rudely! Rather tell him in a pleasant way.
For example,instead of saying," if u are dating me and sleeping with other bitches am out!" Why not Say something like ,"I'm always faithful and honest with the man am dating and would like to be treated the same way". You have just told him that u require the man in ur life to be honest and faithful as well without shouting or pointing and talking tohim rudely. Instead of saying "i can't date a man who doesn't know God" perhaps you can say something like "i Love going to church every sunday because i like to exercise my faith or I don't joke with Sunday service" in so doing, u have made it clear that you're God fearing woman who knows the lord and that u take ur faith seriously. Now, u have given him what u think is valuable information about the woman his interested in. most importantly, u have told him what your standards are,though u have disguised it in a more better and matured way.
Its very important ladies to have standards. to lay out your requirements for a man and convey the importance of those , you must most importantly find out what exactly your requirements are. most ladies don't really know how to and most importantly what they what in a relationship, many are confused and scared of the man not being interested any more, some out of Desperation of thinking they are getting old for marriage end up making mistakes they regret. Ladies! if he truly wants to be with u he will!!!
But seriously, men are not programmed to figure out what you want if u do not tell them! They are quite happy to know up front, so they can decide if they are up for the challenge— not after three weeks into the relationship ,not two months after you guys have had sex,not four years after you two have said "I do"!!rather u should tell him while eating the shawama , meat pie ,barbecue, pizza or whatever he bought u while out on a date this is because u are giving him a road map on how to conduct himself especially "if" his interested in a relationship with u.
Understand that this is not a license for u to start running down your list of "I don't", " I can't". Tell a man wat u require without making it feel Like u are making a list of demands. U can tell him in a midst of conversation and try to shape your standards in soft language, it'll will be easier for him to act on and more importantly for him to understand. Imagine how he will feel if u say it rudely! Rather tell him in a pleasant way.
For example,instead of saying," if u are dating me and sleeping with other bitches am out!" Why not Say something like ,"I'm always faithful and honest with the man am dating and would like to be treated the same way". You have just told him that u require the man in ur life to be honest and faithful as well without shouting or pointing and talking tohim rudely. Instead of saying "i can't date a man who doesn't know God" perhaps you can say something like "i Love going to church every sunday because i like to exercise my faith or I don't joke with Sunday service" in so doing, u have made it clear that you're God fearing woman who knows the lord and that u take ur faith seriously. Now, u have given him what u think is valuable information about the woman his interested in. most importantly, u have told him what your standards are,though u have disguised it in a more better and matured way.
Its very important ladies to have standards. to lay out your requirements for a man and convey the importance of those , you must most importantly find out what exactly your requirements are. most ladies don't really know how to and most importantly what they what in a relationship, many are confused and scared of the man not being interested any more, some out of Desperation of thinking they are getting old for marriage end up making mistakes they regret. Ladies! if he truly wants to be with u he will!!!
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